Reminders of my Mom
By SeattleTed
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
I lost my Mom to cancer this past December. Odd as it may seem, every time I hear Ran, I think of my Mom. First off, the two shared the same birthday. But it goes way beyond that calendar connection. I see in Ran many of the same great traits that made my Mom the wonderful person that she was: Feisty, fiercely independent and, above all, a whole lotta fun. My Mom is the one who introduced me to country music. In her final years, it was something we could share. I can only imagine how amusing it would've been if Ran's songs had been out when I was growing up. I could just hear her making a joke by telling me to clean my room or else she'd put me on a "Greyhound Bound for Nowhere" or ordering me to get my butt to bed before she peppered it with "Gunpowder & Lead".Also, my Mom, just like Ran, cared deeply for animals -- especially dogs. A few months before she died, her and my Dad came across a dog that someone had beaten and abandoned in a ditch. The way my Dad tells it, he couldn't get anywhere near the dog, but when my Mom opened her truck door, the dog ran over and jumped up on her lap. Clearly, she had a connection with animals. That's why shortly after her passing, I made a contribution in her name to the Humane Society of East Texas.
Then a few months ago my Dad took in a small, mostly-white dog that someone couldn't take with them into their new apartment. Even though he already has three dogs, he said he took in the new one because that's what my Mom would've done. When he told me the dog's name I nearly dropped the phone: Delilah. It's another Miranda-to-Mom connection that makes me smile.
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Allison
July 31, 2008 12:37 PM
That's a beautiful story! I know that we spoke before about the passing of your Mom and how much you deeply cared for her. Although it has a sad undertone it's actually very sweet and it's nice to see that you are able to move beyond the loss to those parts of you that retain those wonderful memories!
Thanks to you and your influence if been having Miranda blast through my house for a few months now. And you find it amusing....that now my Mother has become I big fan of hers too!
I was lucky enough to see Miranda at the Stampede this month! It was amazing show and one that I will not soon forget! And I have to tell you......I though about you alot that night! and every time I did I smiled!
Cassie
July 31, 2008 6:27 PM
Thank you for sharing this with us! Keep on surviving!
Brianna
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August 2, 2008 12:24 AM
I'm sorry sorry about your Mother. Your story struck a chord, and I know from the few chats we've had what a great guy you are. I wish you the best, it's a 5 from me!
August 2, 2008 11:49 AM
peace and love 5 stars
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August 5, 2008 2:44 PM
Very touching story, Ted! Good luck.
Athens
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August 7, 2008 12:52 AM
5 stars for you
best of luck
August 8, 2008 9:09 PM
Losing a parent is one of the hardest things, specially a loving and caring mom like you had. That is an amazing story about your mom and the dog, that dog could tell that she would take care of him, that she would protect him.
Keep strong Ted :)
Jessica
August 11, 2008 10:25 AM
Those are some beautiful memories about your mother. You two seemed close. And your parents seem to have been two perfect souls intertwined!
I know what its like to lose a family member. I lost my sister 10 years ago. But the pain hasn't subsided fully. I miss her a lot, and think about her everytime times are tough for me. And I find confort in knowing that she's around me, always. And that we'll be together again someday.
Sending you some love, take care!
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August 14, 2008 3:54 PM
Im sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, but your story was more uplifting then bringing me down. You pointed out all her best characteristics instead of bringing your readers sorrow. Its amazing and maybe a blessing that your mother and Ran have a lot in common. With knowing all that, I think you find comfort in knowing it also.
Take care!
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